Why Won`t You Apologize? Audio
Why Won’t You Apologize? by Harriet Lerner explains that people often refuse to apologize due to fragile self-worth, deep-seated shame, and intense defensivenes
Why Won’t You Apologize? by Harriet Lerner explains that people often refuse to apologize due to fragile self-worth, deep-seated shame, and intense defensiveness. Admitting wrongdoing feels like a threat to their identity, leading them to use denial, minimization, or rationalization to protect their ego. Lerner also notes that injured parties should not feel pressured to forgive, as true healing often requires setting boundaries rather than forcing reconciliation.
